And Without Conscious Effort, Our Parenting Methods Can Create Conflict Instead of Connection.
The authoritarian way most of us have been taught to parent, creates conflict and frustration, endless power struggles and leaves us with broken and distant relationships with our children.
When we parent our children without working through our own history, we are destined to repeat painful patterns we ourselves experienced as children, no matter how badly we want it to be different.
Heal the wounds you experienced as a child, so your children don’t have to
Create a relationship with your children based on trust, connection and collaboration
Experience peace, harmony and mutual understanding with your children
No matter what your relationship with your child(ren) looks like right now, there is hope.
Depending on where things are at, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is.
None of us start off as parents knowing what to do. We create plans, try to be the people we want to be and watch as our idealistic imaginings get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our kids.
“I had a fantastic experience working with Ilona. My relationship with my little one has improved immensely. I am so thankful for that.”
-Frederique
"I am so grateful for the changes and positivity that came from our work together with Ilona. I’ve been growing and learning a lot.”
-Andrea
"I highly recommend working with Ilona. She answered all my questions and assured me of any doubts I had."
-Kelly
As a hypnotherapist with a background in psychology and early childhood education, I always had a strong curiosity about how our inner world forms. I quickly discovered that all of the challenges that adults are struggling with, have roots that originate in childhood.
That’s how I became deeply passionate about supporting parents in their life-changing work of raising future generations, and decided to be a parenting coach.
When I became a mother, I was completely committed to having a different kind of relationship with my child than my parents had with me.
I believe all children deserve to be guided and loved by the best version each of us have to offer them, as parents.
I know that you want to be a loving, peaceful parent that has a meaningful connected relationship with your children. In order to do that you need to find a way to reimagine and reestablish a different kind of relationship with your kids.
It makes you feel like you’re not doing a good job.
But that's not the truth.
I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be so we end up slipping into the patterns that were ingrained in us in our own childhoods.
Which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, a non-judgemental openness and a supportive, personalized, effective plan that I will personally guide you through every step of the way.
When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
"What I like most about Ilona, is that she didn’t assume to know what I was talking about. Instead she asked the questions that brought me to my own answers.”
-Tianna
"Ilona’s approach is very supportive and encouraging, and still very direct.”
-Mary
"With Ilona, I felt seen, and heard, and validated, in a way I did not know I could. I felt as if an invisible weight had lifted and I could breathe more easily.”
-Kaurie
So that you can stop blaming yourself.
And instead take the first step towards becoming the kind of parent you know you can be.